Here's how much it costs to raise a child in your state

Raising a child has never been cheap, but a new study shows that it’s only becoming more expensive.

Loan company LendingTree looked at data at the national and state levels to determine the cost of raising a small child. They collected information from multiple categories including rent, food, child care, apparel, transportation, health insurance premiums and state tax exemptions or credits.

The company found that the average annual essential cost to raise a kid rose nearly 20% (19.3% nationally) between 2016 and 2021, the latest year for which complete data was available.

According to the study, Families are projected to spend $237,482 over 18 years to raise a child.

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A girll holds the hand of her mother in the courtyard at school. (Credit: Anne-Christine POUJOULAT / AFP via Getty Images)

"There is so much that goes into providing even the basics for that little person," Matt Schulz, LendingTree’s chief credit analyst, said, adding, "Those things you need aren’t getting any cheaper these days."

Hawaii is most expensive state to raise child

Basic annual expenses to raise a small child in 2021 equaled $30,506 in Hawaii, more than any other state. The District of Columbia and the state of Washington followed at $30,097 and $28,116, respectively. 

Annual cost to raise a small child:

Families in Hawaii spent an average of 23.9% of their income in 2021 on the basic annual expenses to raise a small child. 

The Aloha State’s cost, in large part, is parents paying a whopping $4,176 more a year in rent than their child-free counterparts. Aloha State parents can also expect to pay an additional $4,010 annually in health insurance premiums. 

The South revealed as cheapest region to raise child

In contrast, annual costs to raise a kid were lowest in Mississippi at $15,555, Alabama at $16,192 and Arkansas at $16,284. The states with the smallest expenses paid among the lowest for infant day care at less than $8,000 a year.

18-year costs of the essentials to raise a child:

Despite this, parents in Mississippi, Alabama and Arkansas still pay more than $1,000 more a year in rent than nonparents, and have food, transportation and health care premium cost increases comparable to more expensive regions. 

Full rankings: Costs to raise a small child in each state

  1. Hawaii - $30,506
  2. District of Columbia - $30,097
  3. Washingon - $28,166
  4. Massachusetts - $27,535
  5. Maryland - $27,317
  6. New York - $26,017
  7. California - $25,680
  8. Oregon - $25,432
  9. New Jersey - $25,390
  10. Nebraska - $25,280
  11. Colorado - $25,169
  12. Connecticut - $25,099
  13. Virginia - $24,317
  14. Minnesota - $24,242
  15. Alaska - $23,545
  16. Kansas - $23,327
  17. Vermont - $23,021
  18. Nevada - $22,436
  19. Illinois - $22,310
  20. New Hampshire - $22,060
  21. Oklahoma - $21,290
  22. Arizona - $21,179
  23. Rhode Island - $21,087
  24. Montana - $20,727
  25. Wisconsin - $20,612
  26. Maine - $20,474
  27. Pennsylvania - $20,405
  28. North Carolina - $20,156
  29. New Mexico - $20,078
  30. Utah - $19,946
  31. Texas - $19,921
  32. North Dakota - $19,710
  33. Delaware - $19,521
  34. West Virginia - $19,509
  35. Missouri - $19,498
  36. Michigan - $19,411
  37. Idaho - $19,329
  38. Indiana - $19,150
  39. Florida - $18,914
  40. Iowa - $18,779
  41. Tennessee - $18,474
  42. Wyoming - $18,261
  43. Ohio - $17,657
  44. Kentucky- $17,607
  45. South Carolina - $17,085
  46. Louisiana - $16,869
  47. Georgia - $16,477
  48. South Dakota - $16,395
  49. Arkansas - $16,284
  50. Alabama - $16,192
  51. Mississippi - $15,555

LendingTree says it may be worthwhile to see if there are accessible ways to lower your proportional child-related spending. 

"It makes sense to take a hard look at your budget to see how much you can afford to spend each month and if perhaps there might be some moves you could make within that budget to free up some extra cash, if necessary," Schulz continued. 

LendingTree suggests saving ahead of time if possible.

"If you can put some money away and build up some savings in the early going, it can help you significantly as your kids get older," Schulz said. "Even a few dollars per paycheck consistently added over 15 to 20 years can add up to some very real money. Having that cushion means that you don’t necessarily need to put that new big-girl bed on your credit card."

This story was reported from Los Angeles.